Relatives mourn Calais drowning victim

Kurdish migrant who died in the Channel just ‘wanted a better life’ for herself, writes Hamid Mohamed

In a simple house in northeast Iraq, the parents of Maryam Nuri Hama Amin mourn the loss of their beloved daughter who drowned trying to reach her fiancee in Britain.

“She wanted a better life,” her father Nuri Hama Amin said, still reeling from shock, just days after his daughter vanished into the freezing waters of the Channel between France and England. “But she ended up in the sea.”

Maryam — “Baran” to her family, a name meaning “rain” in Kurdish — was one of at least 27 migrants who died on Wednesday when their inflatable boat sank off the French port of Calais.

It was the deadliest disaster since at least 2018 when migrants began using boats en masse to cross the Channel to England.

“We have no information on the smugglers,” said her father, speaking from the family home in Soran, a town in Iraq’s autonomous region of Kurdistan, some 3,700 kilometres away from where his daughter died.

“Their promises turned out to be lies.”

Maryam, in her twenties, was desperate to join her fiancee Karzan, also from Iraqi Kurdistan, but who had settled in Britain.

Karzan was on the phone with her as she set out onto the dangerous waters from France — and was the one who called the family in Iraq to tell them she died, her cousin Kafan Omar said.

Shortly before she set left France, her father had spoken to her for hours on the phone.

“She was very happy, she was relaxed,” he said. “She was in a hotel in France, we spoke until eight in the morning.”

Since the disaster, the bodies of the passengers have been held in a morgue in France. Officially, nothing has been released about the identities and nationalities of the 17 men, seven women and three minors.

But at Maryam’s home, about 100 relatives gathered to offer their condolences for her death.

On Saturday, dozens of men, many dressed in traditional Kurdish clothes, sat reciting a prayer.

Close by, under the shelter of a large tent, women in black robes sat in mourning. Maryam’s mother was too grief-stricken to speak.

In the house, Maryam’s room is tidy, as if she had just left it.

Above the bed, two photos show Maryam and her fiancee at their engagement. A picture shows the young woman in a traditional dress decorated with embroidery, with a tiara over an elaborate hairstyle.

Her cousin, Kafan Omar, said she had left home nearly a month before.

“She got a work visa and went to Italy, and then to France,” he said. “We had tried many times to send her to Britain to join her fiancee, but without success.”

Maryam was just one of thousands of young hopefuls from the region who have left home in recent months.

Thousands of migrants — many Kurds from Iraq — have been stuck on the border with Belarus in a bid to cross into Poland and the European Union. Some have returned on repatriation flights, battered by their freezing ordeal.

Many of those Iraqis say they have spent their savings, sold valuables and even taken loans to escape economic hardship in Iraq and start a new life.

Kermaj Ezzat, a close relative of the family, said young people in Iraqi Kurdistan were mainly leaving because of the region’s “instability”. He denounced the policies blocking their travel.

“These countries have closed their borders to young people who dream of a better future,” he said.

Maryam’s father gave a message to others wanting to head west.

“I call on young people not to emigrate and to endure the difficulties here, rather than sacrifice their lives to reach Europe,” he pleaded.

I call on young people not to emigrate and to endure the difficulties here.

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